Tuesday, September 4, 2012

A Baby Story: Hudson Ray

Sorry if there is a little TMI in this post... 
but what's a good birth story without it  :)

Wednesday (the 22nd) I went to my last doctor's appointment, exactly one week before our scheduled c-section, and 2 weeks before my actual due date. I was having lots of braxton-hicks contractions, tightening around my stomach but not painful. Baby boy had dropped down and he was making me incredibly uncomfortable, especially at night.

I was so big, everyone thought I would go early, but I wasn't expecting to. The doctor checked everything out and said it was all normal, no signs at all of early labor. 


Thursday morning I went to a big consignment sale to look for the last few things we needed (I got some great stuff). Then I went by JoAnns (fabric/craft store), taking advantage of being kid-less for a few hours. 

As I was walking around the store I stopped in an aisle and all of a sudden felt something...* TMI Alert * like a small "gush." Trying not to freak out, I walked quickly back to the bathroom. I thought my water might have broke, but turns out it was my mucus plug (dry-heaving I know... I'll spare any more details but definitely look it up if you are pregnant so you won't be freaked out if/when you lose it).  Now I had never experienced this in other pregnancies, but thankfully I had read about it online so I knew what it was. 

So anyway, I left the store and began having contractions, but they weren't too painful. They were steady for about an hour and then they stopped. Once I got home I looked up all the info on losing a m.p. - and it said it could be a sign of labor starting, but it could also mean nothing... so pretty much back to square one. I felt fine the rest of the night. 

Friday morning around 6, I woke up with serious back pain. I felt like I was having contractions all across my lower back and it was painful! They lasted for about an hour. Goose got up to go to work and asked if I needed him to stay home and I said no... they were starting to get farther apart. I was able to nap for a couple hours and everything stopped. 

I thought it would be just another ordinary day.

Then, around 2:00, Reese and I left to go to the bank and get gas before picking up the twins from school. As soon as I started driving, the contractions started... like real contractions. They were around the front and were getting painful.

I had a little notebook with me and started writing down the time (my mom always told me to do that if they were getting consistent)... I am glad I did because they were getting closer together and almost exactly 7-8 minutes apart. I held off calling the doctor because I didn't want to go through the whole check in process just for a false alarm. 

But once they were about 5 minutes apart, 
Goose told me (okay ordered me) to call the doctor. 

She told me to come in now.

I was almost to the twins' school at this point so I went in, trying to play it cool, like I was not having serious contractions every few minutes... The front desk lady looked at me like I was nuts when I told her I needed to check out the boys and was heading to the hospital. She called over the speaker, "I need Nolan and Ty to check out right now please!"

We got in the car and they were so excited that the baby was coming... then Nolan got quiet and in a very concerned voice said, "Mom, Do I have to be in there when they take the baby out?" 
and I said "No, it will just be me with the doctors and daddy." 

He was very relieved. 


Goose left work and we were going to meet at the house and then head to the hospital. I, of course hadn't packed a bag or anything. Once I got home I started throwing stuff together... totally not the time to try packing a hospital bag. I forgot toothpaste, my conditioner and soap, and a nursing-friendly shirt to wear after the babe came. 

Word to the wise- pack your bag early! 

Goose's parents got there to pick up the boys and 
then Goose got there finally (Friday traffic).

We threw the stuff in the car, kissed the boys good-bye 
and headed to the hospital. I loved getting to text the family 
and tell them we were going in early.
So fun to surprise everyone :)

The ride down was hilarious... It was like 5:00 on Friday and we had to go through Loganville and Snellville so traffic was horrendous. Goose was driving like a maniac (only slightly more than usual) and the contractions were coming almost 
exactly 3 minutes apart. 

In between contractions, I took a few pictures 
of Hudson's last time in my belly :)

We got to the hospital and checked in. I changed into my
 super attractive hospital gown and they hooked me up to
 the baby monitor and contraction belt. The contractions 
slowed down a little, but they were still very painful.

Then, the nurse checked me. I was only 1 cm and 60% effaced!! Seriously?? ...but the doc said since the contractions were so steady they would go ahead with the c-section. 

Everything went quickly after that. 
They put in the epidural and had me in the 
operating room within an hour.

Goose came in and Hudson was 
out in just a couple minutes.  

He started crying and it 
was the best. moment. ever.

 (first pic)

 Goose completely forgot the 
flip camera and the regular camera 
so we have no pics or video from when he
 first came out... booooo.

8 lbs 9 oz! Big boy! The nurses were 
oohing and awing over his chubby cheeks 
and blonde hair. 

We got back to the labor room, 
and we finally got to hold him. 


Emotional! I couldn't believe he
was there, healthy and beautiful as can be.


  Now we still didn't have a name... 
and we didn't decide until we were packed up and
 ready to leave the hospital. We had to turn in the 
birth certificate sheet so I had to write something. 

I was sooooo indecisive, I still liked 
Silas but just wasn't sure about it. 

Goose said, "He's a Hudson." so I went with it :)
Now the recovery of my c-section has not been so great. Because we went early, a different doctor than we had planned performed the surgery. Instead of using the same incision as the previous ones like my other doctor does, she cut a totally new incision above the old one. I had no idea until about 3 days later when I could see it. 

The healing has been sloooow and a lot more painful then the last two... but I am finally starting to feel better. I am so thankful Goose was able to take a full week off of work. He did pretty much everything around the house and took great care of me and the boys. 

And he celebrated a birthday on Sunday! :)  

 (playing with his birthday present- 
a Nexus 7 Android tablet)

Hudson is doing great.  Sleepiest baby ever! 

It has been so long
since my big boys let me hold them for longer
than 5 seconds, so I am taking full advantage
of snuggling this little guy :)

I adore the newborn stage!!

I really can't believe I am "Mama" to 4 incredible little guys. 

Completely blessed beyond measure! :)